I think it's a sad sign of love grown cold.
Can you imagine a passionate lover saying, "Do I have to spend more time with her?"
But I suppose what people mean (to give them the benefit of the doubt) is that they don't want to just go through the motions. They want something meaningful. Something living.
It's Agape tonight, our covenant meal, when the most committed members of the church household get together, share, worship, eat a meal including the communion bread and cup.
It's not "a meeting", if by that phrase you mean some formal going through religious motions (heaven forbid).
It's a meal with my best friends. It's a joining of strength with my comrades. We've sworn to live and die together. It's a rare gathering. It's joining with Jesus and His disciples at His last supper, the first communion.
It's a total privalege to be invited and humbles me time after time.
Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching. (Hebrews 10:25)